Kevin,

Obviously, we feel that a cockatiel would fill the bill. When looking for that special bird, your initial focus should be a healthy bird, preferably from a reputable cockatiel breeder. A healthy bird will have a clean vent area, clear nostrils, bright clear eyes and have overall good substance. Look for one that is active and shows no evidence of trouble in flying or perching. Take your time in choosing, because after you both get home, it could be too late to change your mind.